Mother froze after finding a used condom in her Grade 1 student’s bag. The mother revealed who opened it. Listen and you’ll get a headache!
The mother was speechless when she heard what her son said about the “used” condom he found in his school bag.
Young children are often curious about the problems of adults. During this time, if they are not taught and educated properly, they may make mistakes…
A story shared by a mother in Hangzhou, China, has caught the attention of parents on social media. Ms. Xu (not her real name) said that she was cleaning her son’s school bag, who was in his first year of middle school. When she accidentally saw a condom fall out.
At the time of the incident. The son was also sitting there. This unexpected situation made both the mother and the son blush. More importantly, the condom looked like it had been “used”. It had been torn from the สมัครสมาชิก UFABET วันนี้ รับเครดิตฟรีทุกวัน package and did not have any creases like before. Suddenly, many confusing and worrying thoughts flashed through the mother’s mind.
Seeing his mother’s reaction, the son had to explain the condom in detail, insisting that it was definitely not his. But he was not sure who it belonged to. During break at school, two other male classmates, who did not know where they got the condom from, tore it, pulled it, and threw it across the classroom.
The son also said that the two classmates even blew up the condoms like balloons and used them to prank other friends. It is believed that while they were having fun, one of the condoms accidentally fell into his school bag. Which was only discovered by his mother when she checked it.
After listening to her son’s story, the single mother breathed a small sigh of relief. But she was still a little confused. Why did these young people think of condoms as toys? What did these children have condoms for?
At first, Ms. Su intended to let it slide, but later she felt the need to make it clearer so that her son would understand sex education correctly, that condoms were not something that could not be talked about, but that two classmates should not play with them like that.
“I gave some brief advice about the benefits of condoms, but as an older mother, I found it difficult to articulate these things, so I took out a book on physiology and showed it to my children,” Ms Su said.
On this point, most netizens commented that they agreed with Ms. Su’s approach, because this is a good opportunity to talk openly with her son about the purpose of condoms. It is good to tell children early on, and junior high school students are not too early.
Meanwhile, some “experienced people” said that male junior high school students often bring condoms to school and show off. They will get used to it only when curiosity is eliminated.
So, parents, imagine yourself in the same situation as Ms. Sue. If you see a condom falling out of your son’s school bag, you may have the same reaction. Although you may find it difficult to talk at first, after some inner struggle, you will be able to talk to your son comfortably.